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Young people over 18 - Has having porn so easily obtainable had an influence on how you view sex? When I was young you had to look at a sears catalog just to see women in the undies. Hardcore porn was not really accessible. | | yes it has actually | .I accidentally walked in on my 19 year old step son masterbating to some S&M hardcore porn. What should I Do? I stood there, slackjawed, for over 20 minutes. He didn't know that I was home from work, he was masterbating very intensely. I'm worred about him. This was very hardcore and disgusting porno. It sounded like the women were from Europe, Sweden maybe. They were vomiting blood on eachother and smearing it all over each other. There was also a medieval torture device that they ahd this woman strapped upt o. they were putting things inside of her while she screamed. is he too young for porn? He was a job and army? what shoudl di O? | | NUTin why would you :) | Women do you think porn (hardcore) should be banned? Do you think it has a neg/pov effect on society?
Is it healthy or unheathy for the individual?
Do you think it gives young men a unrealistic view of women?
Do you enjoy porn yourself and see it as harmless? | the porn i have the most problems with is already technically banned. but it's still out there, so what's the point of banning it?!?
yes, i think it can be harmful to some (just like alcohol can be harmful to some). my first marriage was destroyed partially due to a genuine porn addiction (nasty stuff--bestiality, incest, pedophelia, snuff--the *really* scuzzy stuff) | Is it normal for young teens like myself watch porn? i dont do it very often probably like once a week and i dont watch like hardcore porn u know its like playboy kinda type that i watch | | Of course it is. Quit judging yourself. Males are sexual creatures. Your fine. Enjoy. | I caught my 10 year old sister watching porn...? I'm 16 and I was borrowing my 10 year old sister's laptop.
I looked at her website history and it turns out that she's umm watching (hardcore) porn. I don't really know what to think.
Should I be worried?
Do you think it's bad that someone that young is watching porn? | no its actually very natural even for a girl to watch porn (although that's a pretty young age) but some people hit puberty faster than others
don't be a patsy. teach her whats right from wrong about sex-ed, and let her make her own decisions. | Are there any pychological evaluations on young women who perform in PORN? Perhaps their feelings before they did it and after some time in doing it. Does it change a perspective in life depending on how hardcore it gets or what. I would think it has to have an adverse affect on their personal relationships and so on especially romantically. Does it desensitize them or enhance something? Just curious, if there are any ex- or current porn stars out there... I would like hear guys point of view too, but I don't wanna get any answers saying PORN IS GROSS or something like that just things pertaining to this Q thanks! | | Of course there are. You need to try looking in scholarly journals. JSTOR is a good source for just about anything. Also contact the local college psych, hist/women's studies dept and ask a professor. I told Women's Political Theory course two years ago and we had a section devoted to the discussion of porn and those papers were based on research/interviews performed on strippers and porn actors. | Is it bad to watch porn this young? is something wrong with me? I'm a girl and I first remember watching at around age 11. I watched it quite often, and now I'm 17 and watch it about every few days, or sometimes a lot more, sometimes less. I think about sex a LOT (I'm still a virgin) but I think about it all the time. I've been masturbating since I was 10, although i first tried to masturbate when I was about 7. I'm obsessed with men (really obsessed) and watch quite hardcore stuff like gagging, dp, anything that is degrading is all that can get me off. I am not into s&m or bondage or anything though. but my question is, is this really bad? is it normal? could it lead to something bad? Idk anymore.. Im not addicted to it, I could probably stop if i tried, but since watching it, ALL that gets me off is thinking about being used, spoken down to, sworn at, spit on, etc.. but in my normal life i don't have a low opinion of myself, thats just what does it for me..
so what do you think? why am i like this? i've never been sexually molested or abused, but i was exposed to sex at an extremely young age and knew a lot about it.
Thanks! please dont call me a slut or anything, this is a serious question. | | Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww, you are gross move to L.A. and become a PORN STAR already, Im a boy and Im not that perverted especially not at age 10. | My fiancee has a serious porn problem that's tearing us apart.? My fiancee is well aware that I think hardcore porn is degrading and disgusting. He has on countless occasions assured me that he will never use porn for masturbation because of how much it upsets me.
So a few months ago, I was trying to pull up a website that i had recently visited on his computer, so I went to the history, and I was shocked when almost all I saw for the past days, weeks, and months, was porn. Not just regular porn, wierd things like beastiality and young girls. I was so disgusted. I had noticed him becoming less sexual, but didn't think to blame porn for a second. We got in a horrible fight, broke up for a short period of time, and after he convinced me of his deep sorrow and regret, we got back together.
This morning, months later, I was on his computer and thought to check his history. I noticed that he had deleted his history, so I asked him about it, and he became defensive, so I restored his computer to an earlier date, and found his massive listing of porn he had been visiting again.
He knows that this kills me inside and I can't be with him like this, but he doesn't seem to care enough to stop obsessing with porn.
What should I do? | Your really answering your own question aren't you when you say you really can't be with him like this, and I can't say I blame you. Sex has become such an ANYTHING GOES these days, that there seems to be no thrill left in it. Sex needs to go hand in hand with love, otherwise it becomes something that is basically seen as animal like, especially among women. Men always claim that they can easily separate sex on its on, and that it can become a totally non emotional thing, they prove this when they sneak of to see prostitutes for example, but a man that is truly in love would not want or even need to be stimulate this way. That is my belief, so I am not labelling all men. I have known many not through relationships with them, but known men who have decent and good honest morals and values in life. So I feel that men who resorts to as you say, almost a beasty sort of porn let alone one that is turned on by watching guyren, is a man that is not going to say pure for the rest of his life, If it takes that much filth and dirt in his mind now, only too soon even that will not become enough for him, This guy could well end under in prison one day, he's obsessed with this sort of thing,
if it were just the occasional ordinary porn movie, I would say to you, just try to live with it, some men just seem to need that bit of titillation, but his man of yours sound positively dangerous to me. This man is going to continue lying to you, and that is why now you are feeling so terribly hurt, catching him out this second time has well and truly broken down an trust you had in him. It's like when suddenly in a long term marriage one partner has an affair. The other partner can learn to forgive that one offence if the adultery is truly sorry, but if they go back and do it again - then the marriage is irretrievably broken down. Your in exactly the same situation.
You deserve better than this, if you stay you are going to have a life of total heartbreak and hurt and probably shame too - I feel this man is going to break the boundaries one day. Anything to do with animals or guyren is totally disgusting. Take the pain of the break up now, it will hurt yes I know, but the hurt would be far greater and more dangerous if you marry a man like this, Be strong, this guy is not for you, Your a person of good moral standards, and you have a good heart, there is a decent man out there waiting for just someone like you.
Do the walk, your a decent honest good hearted person, don;t ruin or waste your life on a man like this.
Good Luck | What can happen to me if I was obsessed with porn as a young teen girl? When I was 13 (Possibly 12, I don't remember. It was definitely late 12 if 12 at all) I ran into online pornography and I became extremely obsessed... I don't think it was addiction but I was definitely obsessed. I cant even tell the hours and hours I spent away from my family, away from living my life, shut up in the basement. I hated it, and wanted to stop... but I couldn't. Then my mom found out, and I stopped for about 2 years because I was ashamed and terrified of being caught again because I was in so much trouble the first time. I never forgot what I did but it was so much better when I was done... I'm so ashamed so please don't criticize me about this. I never meant to and I saw some terrible, extremely hardcore things that I never want to see again. However, recently (I'm 15 now) I've been looking up Youtube stuff again (which is really mild because they don't allow nudity or anything) Anyway, I hate it! I would LOVE TO STOP FOR GOOD because I don't want to ruin any future relationships or get an even more twisted view of what intimacy really is supposed to be like when I find somebody I'm truly in love with. I think it's hormones more than curiosity now because I'm in the middle of puberty, but I don't want my mild stuff I've been seeing to turn into another obsession. Please give me suggestions of what to do, and please don't judge me. I never wanted any of this to happen. It's not supposed to happen to the 'good Christian girls.' And also, what effects will this have on my future? Will it ruin me? I cannot talk to anybody about this, I'm too ashamed. Please don't suggest it unless it's the only option. And also, I cannot see a doctor. I don't want to see my parent's faces when they find out anything more, I don't think I could handle it. I can't forgive myself, and it scares me how little self control I have. Please help me. | You said your Christian right?
In the bible it says: If you eat too much, put a knife to your throat ( NOT literally)
So, if you look at porn too much, limit your time on the computer, and when you get tempted, turn it off. | What will happen to me if I was obsessed with porn as a young teen girl? When I was 13 (Possibly 12, I don't remember. It was definitely late 12 if 12 at all) I ran into online pornography and I became extremely obsessed... I don't think it was addiction but I was definitely obsessed. I cant even tell the hours and hours I spent away from my family, away from living my life, shut up in the basement. I hated it, and wanted to stop... but I couldn't. Then my mom found out, and I stopped for about 2 years because I was ashamed and terrified of being caught again because I was in so much trouble the first time. I never forgot what I did but it was so much better when I was done... I'm so ashamed so please don't criticize me about this. I never meant to and I saw some terrible, extremely hardcore things that I never want to see again. However, recently (I'm 15 now) I've been looking up Youtube stuff again (which is really mild because they don't allow nudity or anything) Anyway, I hate it! I would LOVE TO STOP FOR GOOD because I don't want to ruin any future relationships or get an even more twisted view of what intimacy really is supposed to be like when I find somebody I'm truly in love with. I think it's hormones more than curiosity now because I'm in the middle of puberty, but I don't want my mild stuff I've been seeing to turn into another obsession. Please give me suggestions of what to do, and please don't judge me. I never wanted any of this to happen. It's not supposed to happen to the 'good Christian girls.' And also, what effects will this have on my future? Will it ruin me? I cannot talk to anybody about this, I'm too ashamed. Please don't suggest it unless it's the only option. And also, I cannot see a doctor. I don't want to see my parent's faces when they find out anything more, I don't think I could handle it. I can't forgive myself, and it scares me how little self control I have. Please help me. | It's sad that this is what society has fallen to.
Pornography is NOT evil, or bad, or something to be ashamed of.
It's NATURAL to want to see those things. Right now you are 15. Your body is raging with hormones, and your body is looking to explore its own sexuality. There's nothing wrong with it. And you're not doing anything disgusting or unnatural or being a "bad christian". The bible doesn't mention pornography once btw.
Masturbation and Pornography are as normal and healthy for young girls as young boys. And I've sat through case studies on a similar topic. Are you aware that an EQUAL number of boys and girls both masturbate AND view pornography?
You are not alone, society has just decided that your decision is worse than that boy across the street.
Sweetheart, do not ever be ashamed of your urges. It's a horrible way to live. |
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